The First Five Things to Do After You Get Engaged .....
Congratulations on your engagement! This is an exciting time in your life, and you’re probably feeling a mix of emotions, from joy to anticipation. As you begin planning your special day, there are a few important steps you need to take to ensure your wedding planning is off to the right start. Here’s a guide on the first five immediate things you need to do once you say “yes!”
1. Book Your Venue – The Foundation of Your Wedding
The very first step in wedding planning is finding and booking your venue. Why is this so important? Because without a venue, it’s almost impossible to move forward with the rest of your planning. The venue sets the tone for your wedding, dictates your guest list size, and influences many of your other decisions.
• Tip for Budget-Conscious Couples: If you’re working within a budget, start by exploring local venues and asking for recommendations from friends or in local online groups. Sometimes community centers, parks, or smaller venues offer beautiful spaces at more affordable prices. Don’t hesitate to ask about off-peak dates or special discounts!
2. Set a Budget
Before you dive into all the details, it’s crucial to set a clear budget. Knowing how much you can realistically spend will help guide your decisions on things like vendors, attire, and the size of your guest list. Be honest with yourselves about your financial situation and prioritize the elements that matter most to you—whether it’s a gorgeous photographer, a beautiful venue, or a delicious menu.
3. Create a Guest List
Once the venue is secured, it’s time to create your guest list. Your venue capacity will play a significant role in this, so start by listing your closest family members and friends. Keep in mind that guest list decisions can sometimes affect your budget, as the number of people you invite will impact food, seating, and other arrangements.
4. Choose Your Wedding Party
After you’ve narrowed down your guest list, it’s time to choose your bridal party! Who do you want standing by your side as you take this exciting step in your life? Your maid of honor, best man, bridesmaids, and groomsmen will be crucial in helping you with the planning process and offering emotional support as you move forward with wedding preparations.
5. Hire Key Vendors
Now that you have a venue and a guest list in place, it’s time to start booking your vendors. This includes key services like a photographer, caterer, florist, and DJ (or band). These vendors often get booked quickly, especially if you’re planning your wedding for a busy season, so it’s best to start early.
• Tip: Be sure to read reviews, ask for recommendations, and make sure each vendor aligns with your vision and budget.
Final Thoughts
Starting your wedding planning on the right foot is key to reducing stress and staying organized. By securing your venue, setting a budget, and tackling the major elements like your guest list, wedding party, and vendors early on, you’ll have a solid foundation for planning the wedding of your dreams.
Take things one step at a time, and enjoy the process—your special day is going to be worth every bit of effort!
I've complied a list of Preferred Vendors that I love...
Venues
The Cottonwood Barn
The Nest at Ruth Farms
Planner/Coordinators
Posh + Prim
Florist
The De Lain Co
Posh + Prim
Hey, There Dahlia
Videographer
The Bergerons'
HMUA
